One of the most essential factors of maintaining a stable relationship is communication. Hence, when it comes to a long-distance relationship, it isn’t easy to continue it. Long-distance relationships are difficult, and the distance makes it tougher, but it is possible. Here are five different ways in which you will be able to lift the romance in your long-distance relationship:
Imagine you opened your door to find a delivery of a bouquet of your favorite flowers, and that too by your favorite person. Isn’t that the best feeling ever? You can send your long-distance lover their favorite bunch of bloom.
If you are a bit more romantic, then mail a cute little letter along with the bouquet like, for example, “I miss you!” or “Meet me ASAP!” If you do not remember what specific kind of flowers your long-distance lover likes, then you need not worry about that at all. Nothing can go wrong with preserved roses in a box. Classic!
Music always acts as a healer. If you think your relationship needs a little boost, making a little playlist for your long-distance lover would never go in vain. There was a time when mixtapes worked as a means to show affection for your loved one.
This even works today! Make a customizable playlist that includes all the hit romantic melodies of Taylor Swift and Adele. Mix them with your lover’s and your favorite romantic songs. Gift this special playlist to your long-distance partner, and whenever he or she listens to those songs, it will remind him or her of you. If they carefully listen to the lyrics, they will realize how much effort you’ve put for them into making this curated playlist.
Perfumes are always regarded as an intimate gift. It is something that your boyfriend or girlfriend will wear thinking about you!
Whenever you send each other any gift, try to send him or her your favorite colognes. In this way, whenever you miss your significant other, you can always take a sniff of each other’s scent. In this way, you will not feel alone, like the long-distance couples always feel.
● Virtual Date
Long-distance relationships are an advantage because we can see our partner whenever we want. Just install a video calling app on your phone or laptop and plan a date night. Cook his or her favorite food and wear your prettiest dress.
Virtual dates worked best when you met the person through a social network, and now you are in a long-distance relationship. In this way, you can meet this person virtually, without even meeting him in person. You can still form a connection with them by spending time with them. Also, due to the pandemic, date nights are nearly not possible. Believe it or not, it is possible to develop chemistry over a video call!
● Voice Notes
Calling should be the top priority. Calling is much better than texting because you can hear each other’s voices. Just hearing your partner’s voice will try to lessen the gap between you two. If you have a quick story to share or are in a difficult situation, try to call your long-distance partner. His or her voice will make you calm and will soothe you. Your long-distance lover will feel better because you have called them. There will be times when you will be busy. You would not get time to call. In those times, try recording short, sweet messages like, “I’m sorry, I couldn’t call you today.
Very busy. I love you!” and send it to your long-distance partner accordingly. In this way, you can do your job, and also you have shown great attention towards your long-distance partner. Also, avoid excess communication. You don’t want to be called “possessive” or “clingy.”
Just because you are miles apart doesn’t mean you have to compensate by spamming your long-distance lover.
Long-distance relationships aren’t easy, and no amount of science and technology can make up for the physical distance. Even then, with the right amount of spending time with your long-distance partner, romance is possible!
If you feel that the romance in your long-distance relationship is fading away, then try to implement these theories as soon as possible.