This is a continuation of the series of articles on “How To Date The Hot Woman of Your Dreams.
Goal 3: Let her know there is no ulterior motive.
When you’ve managed to get her talking about herself, really listen to what she’s saying. This will give you cues to lead into other questions and get her to understand that you’re interested in what she has to say. However, while you’re listening, watch out for the cues that tell you she’s starting to enjoy the conversation.
This is the point where you need to learn to stop while she still wants a little more. Look at your watch and say you have to run. Let her know it was great talking to her. If you have an interest in talking further, ask for her number.
If you have no further interest in that woman, and you were just chatting to try out your new confidence, give her your best smile and tell her goodbye. That’s it.
Don’t forget your visualization object from the first lesson. Before you talk to the woman in question, look at the visualization object from the previous lesson and feel those feelings of being the best, or being confident and of being completely in charge. Then, talk to the woman and quickly get her talking about herself. Then, try to make her smile at the same time.
You may not realize it, but just the visualization object alone will make you ten times more attractive in women’s eyes. Confidence is in the eyes, and if you can truly feel those feelings, you’ll look confident as well. And if you can get women talking about themselves and you can get them to laugh and smile, they’ll be instantly attracted to you, and you’ll know it.
When a woman is attracted to you, she’ll reach out and touch your arm as she’s talking to you or she may even lean into you while laughing. This is when you’re in a prime position to pick her up. But you’re not going to do that. Not yet.
Instead, keep goal number 3 firmly in mind. After you’ve spoken with the woman for a few moments, you’re just going to walk away and leave her wanting just a little more.
Practice this for one week and then get ready to meet hot women, because you’ll be doing a lot of that the following week. That’s when your new-found skills will get put to the test.
Stay tuned for more advice on dating hot women or the woman of your dreams. Remember you can do it.