How to Be Kinky in a Relationship: 6 Sexy Ideas

Sahar Enady June 27, 2021

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Did you know the global sex toy market is estimated to be worth around $33.64 billion? Sex is big business and there are lots of shiny new products to help you get that perfect sex life. But pushing the bells and whistles aside, do you know what it means to be truly kinky?

Sometimes in a relationship, this concept can get lost in the day-to-day grind, but we can help bring it back. Read on as we discuss how to be kinky in a relationship.

1. Book a Hotel

Getting out of your normal habitat can be one of the kinkiest things of all. In fact, a last-minute hotel break can be an excellent turn-on. Make sure you order a plush room with a huge bed for all your frolicking, order a bottle and some food and lock yourself in for the evening.

2. Start the Day With a Bang

Can you think of a better way to start the day than with a quickie? Not only is waking someone up with sex a great kinky idea, the endorphins released will set you up in a positive frame of mind, whatever your work schedule has in store.

Always make sure you let the person know that more is available in the evening. This gives them something to think about all day and builds suspense.

3. Plan It

How to be kinky is not just about surprise. In fact, building up to something is just as fun. It may not seem like it, but letting someone know action is just around the corner can be a huge turn-on.

Schedule a sexy weekend away, or pencil in an evening for your antics. Discuss your desires and turn-ons then arrange to fulfill them, so that your partner is left dreaming about them all week.

4. Give BDSM a Shot

You don’t have to go all fifty shades with this one unless you really want to. Domination and submission come in various forms, from simple handcuffs on the bedpost to Japanese rope bondage sessions. If you speak about it, you can both decide on a happy medium, pick a safe word, then let the games begin.

5. Get Enhanced

If you are wondering how to last longer or how to have better sex, then consider getting some help. There are a huge variety of products on the market designed to enhance your sexual experience. From pills to potions, some work wonders and some don’t work at all.

All you can do is check reviews and try them out. These tips can help you have a great time with some of the best available.

6. Have Oral Sex

Non-reciprocal oral sex, when done as a surprise, is one of the kinkiest tricks around. Surprise your partner, then finish off and go back to your daily routine. Of course, they may always choose to give the surprise back at a later date.