Is your sex life beginning to feel monotonous? Finding a way to spice things up will have you back on cloud 9 in no time. Get started with these sexy tips!
Couples aren’t having as much sex as they’d like in many cases. If you are one of the couples that wish they could have more sex and want to spice things up, there are things you can do to get your sex life back on track.
Having more sex with your partner can bring you closer together, and even help your health. Continue reading this article to learn how you can spice up your sex life.
Don’t Go to the Same Spot
Routine is the fastest way to kill the spark. You know the look, the kissing, and the spot where you’re going to have sex.
It’s back to the bed. It’s on your back, and then I’m on mine. How boring.
Skip the spot you normally have sex and get some on the kitchen counter, or in the garage, or on the washing machine. Go anywhere you can get a little privacy and add some spice into your sex life.
Address Problem Areas
If you feel like you’re having problems with your sex life, it’s best to address them right away instead of letting these issues wreck your sex life.
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Maybe you feel like you don’t connect with your partner well during sex. You can have a conversation and talk to them about how you can communicate better during sex.
The more problem issues you deal with before sex, the more you’ll be able to enjoy sex and make it extra spicy.
Open Your Eyes
Do you have sex in the dark a lot? Do you have the lights on, but you keep your eyes closed while having sex?
Opening your eyes and showing your partner that you love to look at them will increase the spark in the room, and add some tension. If you don’t want to open your eyes during all of the sex, at least open them when you climax to make it even more intense.
When you stare at your partner during your climax, it sends the message that they are the reason you’re experiencing this and deepens the connection. It might be difficult for you to look at your partner in the eyes during the climax at first, but once you can, it will be out of this world.
Set Up a Mirror
Setting up a mirror allows you to have a real live-action show of yourself. Seeing yourself during sex can show you how sexy you look and give you some new insight into how you and your partner are doing things.
Change the mirror angles to explore different views. You can even get a little hand mirror that you can position whatever way you want to get the perfect view.
Playing music is a great way to put you and your partner at ease. Make sure you make a good mix. You don’t want some strange song coming on while you’re trying to get them in the mood for sex.
Create playlists depending on the mood you want to create for sex. It might be a sexy and sensual night, or you might want to go a little more of the hardcore and naughty side of things. Just make sure that your partner is on the same page and wants the same things.
Just so you don’t stop the music too soon, make sure you put your playlist on a loop.
Try Quiet Sex
Making your partner moan can be one of the most fulfilling parts of sex, but sometimes it is too much pressure. If your partner doesn’t make the sex sounds you think they should make, you might feel like you aren’t doing your job.
Instead of putting pressure on you and your partner, why not try quiet sex? You can pretend like you need to be quiet or that you’re going to get caught, which can make the sexual tension high.
Make sure you keep a pillow handy, so you can scream into it when you climax.
If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, you might feel like everything has been played out. You’ve had sex in all the different places. You’ve had sex in all the different positions, and you know things are getting a little stale.
One of the fastest ways to boost your level of spice is through role-playing. There are a lot of different things you can role-play, and you can get as kinky as you want.
Some of the most common role-play scenarios are schoolgirl and teacher, a stranger at the bar, police, and criminal, and plenty more. Some people choose to do role-play from their favorite movies and TV shows. Ross and Rachel, anyone?
It’s Time to Spice Things Up
Now you know more about how to spice things up, and it is time to enjoy more sex. Having more sex with your partner is a great way to bring you closer together and boost your physical and mental health.
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