For anyone that has ever been cheated on, life can become very difficult and it can become hard to trust someone again in the future. Some people become distrustful of their current partner because of how they have been treated in the past but in some cases this lack of trust is unfounded. Of course, there are times when the lack of trust is warranted but how can you find out whether your partner is indeed cheating or whether you are just paranoid because of past experiences?
Well, one thing to bear in mind is that cheating partners often make mistakes that make it easy for you to catch them out. While you might not like what you find out, it is certainly better to know what is going on than to be kept in the dark. By looking out for some of the mistakes they make, you can more easily determine whether your partner is being unfaithful or up to something untoward.
Some of the common mistakes they make
There are various sites that enable you to do everything from a public records search through a reverse phone number lookup these days. If your partner has given their phone number out to the person they are messing around with, you will probably notice a sudden influx in calls being received and made. One of the things you can do is look up the number of the person calling and find out who it is. If your partner has previously lied to you about who was calling, you will then be able to prove that this was a lie.
Another mistake that cheating partners often make is to lie and say they are meeting up with a particular friend or family member when in fact they are going to meet the person they are cheating with. These days, you don’t have to follow them to see whether they are telling the truth. All you need to do is go on the social media site of the person they are meant to be meeting up with. You will often see from there whether that person is indeed out with your partner or whether they are doing something completely different and are blissfully unaware that their name has been given as an excuse for your partner to go out.
One final mistake that some cheating partners make is to forget to log out of their social media sites on the computer or phone. Many use social media in order to privately message the person they are cheating with, as they think you won’t find out about these messages. However, if they fail to log out of the social media site after messaging, it means that they will still be logged in if you go onto the site on the same device. You will then be able to see exactly who they have been messaging and what they have been saying, which will enable you to determine whether or not they have been cheating.