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Starting Over: A Complete Guide for Moving to a New City and Making New Friends

Many people dream about moving to a new city, but rarely does anyone have the courage to actually go through with it. That is because moving can be quite scary, and the mere idea of starting over fresh somewhere far away can be enough to make people stay put.

But just like any other big change or ambitious endeavor in life, starting over requires determination, perseverance, and an unyielding amount of enthusiasm.

If you are brave enough to give this new adventure a try, here are some ways to speed up the process of assimilation and make adjusting to a new city that much easier:

Only pack the bare essentials

Packing can be difficult no matter how far away you are moving. But if you’re moving somewhere by yourself, packing too much might be a big problem, because there won’t be anyone to help you unpack when you arrive in your new city.

Besides, moving to a completely new environment is a great chance to start over, so make sure to take advantage of it.

Learn how to pack efficiently, throw out or donate as much of your stuff as you can spare – even though you might think you are at a loss and you’ll be happy when you realize how much easier it will be to start anew.

pack the bare essentials

Make use of shipping containers

Even though we’ve established that the less stuff you bring, the better, the logistics of getting it all to your destination can be quite challenging.

Hiring a moving company can be quite expensive, especially if you are moving further away, and it could also result in your stuff being held hostage, while shipping can also turn out to be very pricey.

The best option is to get in touch with a reputable company like Moving Containers that will help you transport anything from your clothing and small household items to your electronics and bulky furniture.

With reliable drivers and excellent service, shipping container transport companies will move your items safely and soundly, either by road or by rail, throughout the whole country, no matter the destination.

Make use of shipping containers

Unpack and organize as soon as possible

It’s very hard to get settled in your new environment when you’re living out of boxes or your pictures are in frames leaning against the walls. It’s hard to feel like you’re at home when your rooms aren’t organized and you can’t seem to find those important documents you need, no matter where you look.

So, take the time to make your place feel like home as soon as you move in so that you can focus on truly living in your new environment.

Unpack and organize as soon as possible

Explore your new neighborhood

Getting to know the area around where you live is a very important part of settling in and feeling at home.

Apart from giving you a chance to meet and befriend the locals and your new neighbors, finding some beautiful scenery, such as parks, hikes through local woods, or even wonderful beaches, will give you a greater appreciation for where you decided to live, and it will help make this new place more your own.

Explore your new neighborhood

Reach out to acquaintances

When we travel and relocate, we often cross paths with characters from different walks of our lives that we never expected to see or connect with again.

Don’t be afraid to reach out to those people who pop up in your newsfeed from time to time, and ask your friends to introduce you to their local friends and acquaintances.

Most people are usually very friendly and will be happy to meet up and start a friendship, while those who have made a big move themselves will be more open-minded about meeting up with you and helping you out through the transitional process.

Reach out to acquaintances

Try to be patient

It can take months, or even years, to build an adequate social network and make connections with people on a meaningful level. Sometimes, you’ll have to be persistent to get someone to spend time with you, and there will be days when you feel lonely and absolutely sick of small talk.

Think about your close friends from home and how long it took to cultivate those deep bonds, and don’t get discouraged if the friendship magic doesn’t happen right away.

Always keep an open mind and an open heart, embrace the joys, as well as the discomforts of moving, and be ready to conquer the new city and create long-lasting bonds. Get packing, because your new life awaits you.

Mike Johnston

Mike Johnston is an avid freelance writer and blogger from Sydney, Australia. He is a regular contributor to numerous blogs and online magazines, where he writes about interior design (his specialty!), travel, small business, sustainable living and other related and unrelated topics. Mike’s goal is to create insightful and compelling content that will help readers navigate through these vast and ever-changing fields.
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